Igal Sarna
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Omer Goldman is a pretty girl, slender as a model. Never still, very restless, she is filled with anxiety by the expected loss of her freedom. For months before she refused to be drafted into the Israel Defence Forces, she went to a psychologist every week to prepare for what was to come: incarceration in a cell in a military prison.
I met her several times last month in an apartment with other girls who are conscientious objectors. Together they would hand out flyers against Israel’s occupation of the West Bank and Gaza at the gates of a high school like the one she left a year ago.
On her last day of freedom as a civilian, I saw her at the gates of the intake base to which she had received orders to report for induction into a two-year stint with the defence forces, like every Israeli girl. She had come to refuse the draft, to be tried and to be imprisoned immediately.
Several dozen supporters showed up – members of Anarchists Against the Wall, her mother and a few girlfriends – and she stayed close to them as though she were trying to delay the end, the moment when she would clash all alone with the army.
For Omer, this transition is sharper and more surprising than for most conscientious objectors: she is the daughter of the former deputy head of Mossad, the Israeli intelligence service, the man who nearly became its head.
Omer grew up all her life in the warm bosom of a huge security establishment that has now become an enemy rather than a friend. Her father appears in the newspapers as N. He was a senior intelligence officer who transferred to Mossad and climbed to the top until in 2007 he became the deputy to Mossad’s chief, Meir Dagan, now considered the most powerful mystery man in the Israeli security system.
N, whose speciality is Iran, was spoken of as Dagan’s designated successor, but Dagan had no intention of retiring. Differences of opinion developed between the two strong bosses, and N resigned in June 2007.
This was the time when his 18-year-old daughter Omer, a pampered child of the wealthy suburb of Ramat Hasharon, was beginning to move away from the usual high-school-to-army trajectory.
In parallel to her father’s struggle and his resignation from Mossad, Omer rebelled against the path he had paved for her and went to have a look at Palestinian life on the other side of the wall. Call this an adolescent’s rebellion against her father or a battle for the heart of a father who had left home.
She is one of about 40 pupils who signed a school-leavers’ protest letter this year. Thirty-eight years ago the first such letter – a counterblast against the occupation and the war of attrition, sent by pupils in the final year of my secondary school to Golda Meir, the prime minister – caused an uproar.
There have been other letters since then, and although the furore is not what it was, in Israel conscientious objection still arouses cold, self-righteous wrath.
Omer told me that the crucial moment of her metamorphosis occurred this year when she went to a Palestinian village where the Israeli army had set up a roadblock. Someone she had considered her enemy all her life stood beside her and someone who was supposed to be defending her opened fire at her.
“We were sitting by the roadside talking and soldiers came along and after a few seconds they received an order and fired gas grenades and rubber bullets at us. Then it struck me, to my astonishment, that the soldiers were following an order without thinking. For the first time in my life, an Israeli soldier raised his weapon and fired at me.”
And when you told your father? “Dad was astonished and angry that I had been there and endangered my life. After that we had conversations. He supported me as his daughter and we have a good relationship, but he is decidedly opposed to what I do and even more to my refusal to serve in the army.
“At first he thought this was a passing phase of adolescence and later he understood that this is coming from a place deep inside me. He and I have very similar characters. I, too, fight to the end for what I believe in. But we are opposites ideologically.”
When I ask more about her father, Omer smiles and does not answer. A rare moment of silence.
On September 23 she refused to serve in the army, was tried and was sent to prison for 21 days. This week she will be tried again – and again, until the army tires or she tires.
In two weeks’ time my own son Noam is due to join the army, and I will be accompanying him to the base where I last saw Omer Goldman. Unlike her, Noam intends to do his military service. I understand them both.
© Igal Sarna
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Lock her up for the duration of her service.
(I have served)
BB, London, UK
Will Omer Goldman change her mind later when some Palestinian straps a dynamite vest on a retarded woman and sends her out to blow her mother up?
Or is she going to ask the Arabs to join her in passive disobedience- Ha! Ha! Ha!
lee, Alexandria, VA, usa
"I wish this world had more people like her and less sheep." - Steve
The decision is intensely personal, as the author says. One can understand how different 18-year-olds come to different choices.
I think we need to study and fund peacemaking as intently as we do warmaking.
Good luck, Omer
Adrian, Seattle, USA
My respect and admiration to Omer Goldman.
Israel uses all its power to oppress the occupied Palestinian people. This will make many good Israel become new Omer Goldman.
Just like America, Israel has a shoot first and ask questions later mentality, which can be seen.
Antonio da Silva, Rosario, argentina
Yes David, it is named the Israeli Defence Forces, but it's funny how many things in warfare and politics are labelled as the opposite of what they actually do. Just like America, Israel has a shoot first and ask questions later mentality, which can be seen by their shooting at one of their own
Gavin Le Boutillier, Bilton, East Yorkshire
It's cute how you all pretend to want peace and all love to blame Israel for everything, but until the Palestinians, and the arab islamic world, doesn't want to destroy Israel anymore, peace is impossible. Terrorists were attacking Israel constantly, so Israel put a defensive barrier up. Deal.
Steve, Boston, USA
Israel always refused to refer to it's military as an army. It 's always called the Israel DEFENSE Forces. They want only to defend the country against those that seek it's destruction & pray for the day they aren't needed. If they sought to really take other land.. they could easily take anything.
David , Toronto, canada
Robert, from LA: "Goldman craves attention and CHOSE not to serve"
You seem to think that this is a bad thing. Her refusal is an act of protest, so yes, I imagine that she does crave attention; the more the better. After all, what's the point in making a statement if no-one's going to hear?
KK, Blackburn, UK
This young woman has more guts than any of the keyboard korporals who criticize her. Obviously, her family connections would have guaranteed her a cushy military slot. Instead she chose honor and conscience. Something that barstool brigade commanders who have never fought cannot understand.
Carl Street, San Francisco California , USA
UN Resolutions condemn Israeli's presence in occupied territories. It is an illegal invasion and the Palestinians have right ti resist under UN charter. What is the problem? Even Some jews recongnise this reality. Why are we so blinded by media propaganda!
Jim, Manchester, UK
If you want World PEACE, then please Read and Recommend "THE ART OF PEACE" by Morihei Ueshiba, (founder of Aikido - the martial art of love), to Everyone you Know and Love. Thank You. (So Be It.)
John Robert Martino, NYC, USA
If she wants peace, maybe she can also ask Palestinian politicians and media when they will give a date for voter registration of the refugees? So a peace process can be put to a referendum. Or when elections are held for the Knesset, then Palestinians in the West Bank and Gaza and camps also vote?
Hugo van Randwyck, London, Uk
People, let us remember. Israel's occupation is not illegal, it is most (not all) of the 'settlements' that are. And Robert in LA is correct -- there are other non-military ways to do natl service. The IDF are not murderers (sorry Peter in BC and Sara) but are similar to any proper army anywhere.
C Bozner, London,
This very brave young woman illustrates why it is so important for the world to understand that all Jews are not zionists. When you get rid of the zionists, (as with other bigots such as nationalists & fundamentalist movements anywhere in the world) then peace will stand a chance!
Kevin Sullivan, London,
Ah well...every nation has its quislings, including Israel.
BTW, there are many of Israeli girls ( mainly Orthodox) who choose not to seve in the Tzahal ( the IDF) but do national service of other kinds with the full approval of the authorities.
Goldman craves attention and CHOSE not to serve
Robert, Los Angeles, USA
Omg I want to marry this woman. She stands firm and strong and fights for her beliefs, fights for human being rights...
I wish this world had more people like her and less sheep.
Steve, Perth, Australia
The best way to indoctrinate the young is stick them in the armed forces. That's why Israel has the draft, as it's Nuclear arsenal alone is sufficient to guarantee it's security for all time.
Shaun, Exeter, UK
Glory and power to this woman who has the great courage to make peace, not war. To refuse the mental sick religion of war. We are few and far apart, and we may die before civilization has come to our planet, we peacemakers give true meaning to compassion and love, We are with you in your solitude.
Alex, Philipsburg, Farawayistan
Good for her. Thousands of other young Israeli's refuse in this manner but still Israel insist on the illegal occupation and brutalising of the Palestinians and the world cheer them on.
Marilyn, Adelaide, Australia
Well done Omer Perhaps now more people will believe about the murderous attitude of the IDF. Building walls, terrorising Palestinians will never bring security to Israel but the attitude of young people like Omer may. I wish her well.
Peter, Vancouver.BC, Canada
Everyone deserves to have their say , this young girl didn't want to serve for the israeli army because she didnt believe in what they were doing(killing innocent people).
if i were her ... i would refuse to.
Sara , London, UK
SGA, what has this to do with whether the objector is a man or a woman? did you not read the article? or did you just not understand it? ... do you really believe that those who refuse to fight do so simply because they are afraid?
Marco, Kraków, Poland
For men or women it is much easier to simply join the army then to be a conscientious objectors. To refuse is definitely not the easy way out, it takes much more courage then most people think
CG, toronto , Canada
Women demand equal rights worldwide but refuse too often to bear equal responsibility. Man up, g/f. Equal rights means just that, take the good with the bad or leave the good alone. Talk is cheap. If you are going to 'dish it', you better be prepared to 'take it'. If not, game over.
SGA, Tampa, USA